After the birth of our second daughter, money was tighter than ever. It was September 19, 1978 and winter was coming. I needed a new winter coat but I had only $35 to spend on it—tops. And this was a time when coats started selling at $50-60 a piece. While it felt early in the season, it was actually late. Coats had been picked over and I’d been looking already for several weeks.
I remembered listening to some Norman Vincent Peale tapes where he stated that in order to draw to you what you need, you have to believe that you already own it. That it’s already yours. That it’s meant to be yours. The secret was to speak and believe as if you already owned it, so the choice of verb tense was important. Peale’s most famous work—now a true classic—is The Power of Positive Thinking, first published in 1952. It can still be found on popular bookstore shelves today.
This positive-thinking philosophy would be repeated every decade by someone new. In the 1970s, that person was Dr. Wayne Dyer, followed by Anthony Robbins in the 1980s. By the twenty-first century, both would be talking about higher consciousness and our need to connect with our inner consciousness, that our power comes from within.
And then, a little tiny book authored by Rhonda Byrne would make headlines in 2006 unlike other books of self-fulfillment. That book was The Secret and many of the philosophies that were being introduced to the public I was already practicing. In fact, I had practiced it back on that day in 1978.
It was a typical shopping day for me where I was on a hunt for a specific item and coming up with nothing. As I stood in the store, I visualized. In my mind’s eye, I saw the coat that I desired—brown plaid fabric, a long coat that came down to my boots or knees, and with a hood.
At that very moment, my glaze fell upon the bin in front of me, which was full of mittens, gloves, and hats. I wasn’t normally a hat wearer, but I noticed a rust-colored hat that I knew would match this desired coat perfectly. I bought the hat. I even began wearing it and carrying it, not caring that it didn’t go with the light-weight fall jacket or sweaters I was wearing while still on the hunt.
Two weeks later, I found the coat on sale for $32. It was on a rack where it should not have been hanging. It was almost as if it was there for me to find at that moment. I happened to be wearing the hat. When I put on the coat and looked in the mirror, the hat appeared as if it originally came with the coat.
Several days later, the winter’s first snow fell. Every time thereafter, for the decade or more that I owned that coat, whenever I put it on, I was reminded that visualization works. More importantly, I learned how my belief could not waver. I had to see it, feel it, hear it, smell it, taste it. All the senses had to be engaged.
This was not be the first time that I would draw to me that which I needed. The future would hold far bigger needs, seemingly impossible goals, needs, or desires. But what I did learn this day was not only did the secret work, but I learned how it worked. Unbeknownst to me, the future was filled with opportunities for practice.